People quickly lose trust in someone who can't be truthful. Whether it's small lies or serious dishonesty, this trait can make it hard for others to rely on you, creating distance in relationships.
Constantly seeking attention or being overly self-centered can make other people feel undervalued or ignored around you making you unlikeable.
No one enjoys being around someone who always sees the worst in situations as it drains the positive energies from everyone.
Acting like you're better than everyone else, or talking down to people, creates an instant barrier. Confidence is attractive, but arrogance can make others feel belittled.
Dodging responsibility for mistakes or shifting blame onto others shows a lack of maturity and self-awareness. This tendency makes people distant from you.
Playing mind games or trying to control others for personal gain leaves people feeling used and mistrustful.
Refusing to consider new ideas, opinions, or perspectives can make interactions feel one-sided. Being stubborn can push people away.