Dads-to-be, take note! Hold your partner's hand in labour room to ease their pain

Washington: Fathers-to-be, do you know you are more useful in the labour room? Well, a new study has found that when the partner holds the hand of a woman in pain, their heart and respiratory rates sync and her pain dissipates.

The study of 22 couples is the latest in a growing body of research on "interpersonal synchronisation," the phenomenon in which individuals begin to physiologically mirror the people they are with.

Pavel Goldstein from University of Colorado at Boulder in the US said, "The more empathic the partner and the stronger the analgesic effect, the higher the synchronisation between the two when they are touching."

Scientists have long known that people subconsciously sync their footsteps with the person they are walking with or adjust their posture to mirror a friend's during conversation.

The studies also showed that when people watch an emotional movie or sing together, their heart rates and respiratory rhythms synchronise.

Research shows that when leaders and followers have a good rapport, their brain-waves fall into a similar pattern. And when romantic couples are simply in each other's presence, their cardiorespiratory and brain-wave patterns sync up.

The latest study is the first to explore interpersonal synchronisation in the context of pain and touch.

The researchers hope it can inform the discussion as health care providers seek opioid-free pain relief options.

Goldstein recruited 22 long-term heterosexual couples, aged 23 to 32, and put them through a series of tests aimed at mimicking that delivery-room scenario.

Men were assigned the role of observer; women the pain target. As instruments measured their heart and breathing rates, they: sat together, not touching; sat together holding hands; or sat in separate rooms.

Then they repeated all three scenarios as the woman was subjected to a mild heat pain on her forearm for two minutes.

As in previous trials, the study showed couples synced physiologically to some degree just sitting together. However, when she was subjected to pain and he could not touch her, that synchronisation was severed.

When he was allowed to hold her hand, their rates fell into sync again and her pain decreased.

Goldstein said,"It appears that pain totally interrupts this interpersonal synchronisation between couples. Touch brings it back." 

Goldstein's previous research found that the more empathy the man showed for the woman (as measured in other tests), the more her pain subsided during touch. The more physiologically synchronised they were, the less pain she felt.

It is not clear yet whether decreased pain is causing increased synchronicity, or vice versa, researchers said.

Goldstein said,"It could be that touch is a tool for communicating empathy, resulting in an analgesic, or pain-killing, effect." 

The study did not explore whether the same effect would occur with same-sex couples, or what happens when the man is the subject of pain.

The study was published in the journal Scientific Reports.

(With PTI inputs)